Wednesday, 27 April 2016


This week, I thought I would rant a little and to be honest with you, I love such kind of posts. Not only posting them but also reading other bloggers. The new year has started and these past four months have gone by so quickly. Everyday, even though you follow the same routine, there are things that you learn and people you meet that change your life completely. Living alone has molded me into the person that I am today and I would advice every youngster to do so. It teaches you so many things that not only make you a stronger person but help you overcome any obstacle that may come your way in the future. So here are the things that I learned this year:

1) DO YOU: I don't want to sound braggy but I've always been kind to everyone. My friends know me as a person who would go out of their way to help. I have always been that person who would think about others first and then look at my own shit. But from my own experiences I can tell, you gotta do you! You have to make yourself happy first before you please others. Now, some may call this being selfish, but NO. This is not called being selfish, it is called being practical and happy, You come alone and at the end of the day, people will leave you but you have only yourself so go do things that make you happy. You don't need anybody's approval.

2) SELF LOVE: Let me warn you right here, this post is going to be all about how to love loving yourself! Self love is so important and you don't realize it until you start feeling good about yourself. The day you feed it in your mind that you love the way you are, you will look at life with a different perspective. Times have changed now and the pressure from your friends, family can make a person feel less worthy. Every person has something to offer - some take more time in discovering it and that's normal. Unreasonable expectations can lead to disappointment and you just don't want any energy to bring you down. So accept the person that you are and spread the message of self-love!

3) PEOPLE MOVE ON: My motive for this post was not making you all emotional but this point everyone can relate to. Breakups, broken friendships, broken promises are all part of life. But does being stuck in the same place help? Is that the solution to all your problems? The answer is NO. I have had a hard time coming to terms with the fact that you can drift away from the people who were so close to you. Circumstances change and people do too. It's hard to move on but not impossible. If you want to grow in life, prosper, utilize better opportunities, you have to leave the past behind. The future is all about who YOU want to see yourself becoming even if it means letting go. If someone left you that means they were never destined to be a part of your life so stop over-thinking and get moving!

I know this was a huge rant with excerpts from my own life but I hope this helps if you need some motivation. I'm no expert but I just thought I would still share it with you guys! Let me know the things that you learned this year - I'd love to read 'em!

Hope you have an amazing day!




  1. This is such an interesting post! I'm loving it. Thanks a lot for sharing :)

  2. Aw this was such an inspirational read. Definitely self love and it's always great to remind ourselves that.


  3. This is a lovely post, thanks for sharing! I think your blog is lovely too, let me know if you would like to follow each other! x